Lessons
A series of work/life lessons from the walk, as posted on my LinkedIn page each week.
#28: Use imagination when building a constituency for change.
Deprived part of a city with challenges. A resident – my Airbnb host – had a vision: restore a beautiful Victorian street fountain which had been knocked over in 1928. Revitalize civic pride and bring back some beauty to the neighbourhood. Council said: not enough money, not a priority. So Simon set to work. Wrote a catchy song about being proud to live in the town, and taught it to children at local schools. Developed “name-a-brick” for brickwork around the proposed fountain. Once the pupils were excited, their parents responded. Local businesses offered to help. Others volunteered to sponsor a brick. The councillors realized something was afoot; suddenly matching funds were found. The National Lottery chipped in. Two years later the grand re-opening of the fountain was celebrated, to everyone’s delight. There was enough credit around for everybody to say that they’d had the idea and made it happen! And the neighbourhood is improving...
Constituencies for change can be always built, with enough imagination.
Lesson #1: Checklists work, but they take real discipline to use. |
Lesson #2: Acts of kindness are twice blessed. (Apologies to Shakespeare.) |
Lesson #3: Social changes are happening fast. |
Lesson #4: Walking begets thinking. But walking and thinking need to be accompanied by talking. |
Lesson #5: Targets focus attention, create incentives and work. But they also distort. So…don’t discard targets, but think hard… |
Lesson #6: Quiet time really works. Make time for it. |
Lesson #7: Persuasion takes investment in time, stories and relationships. |
Lesson #8: Don’t waste emotional energy on irritations which will seem minor in hindsight. |
Lesson #9: Connect, listen and embrace coincidences. (Fate?) |
Lesson #10: Acknowledge our predecessors. |
Lesson #11: Persuasion works better after listening. |
Lesson #12: Inspiration is everywhere, if we look. |
Lesson #13: All three matter: what we do, which organization we work in and who we work for/with. |
Lesson #14: Criticism is everywhere. Genuine, heartfelt appreciation is rarer – and highly motivational. Use it more. |
Lesson #15: Community matters. |
Lesson #16: Suggestion for New Year’s resolution list: Take a long walk in 2019. |
Lesson #17: Sometimes all that’s needed is just to listen. No action necessary. |
Lesson #18: Vision, plus steps to attain it, is inspiring and practical. |
Lesson #19: Encourage and respond to contrary views. |
Lesson #20: Our actions and attitudes really do make a difference. |
Lesson #21: February is a good month to cement positive habits. |
Lesson #22: Small kindnesses can have large impacts. Including creating relationships. |
Lesson #23: We can recover (and sometimes do extraordinary things) from facing real adversity. |
Lesson #24: The personal touch really matters. The difference between neutrality/slight negativity and warm positive feelings. |
Lesson #25: Enthusiasm plus competence is infectious and motivating. |
Lesson #26: Life’s short. The potential satisfaction of change is greater than the disappointment of inaction. |
Lesson #27: The unusual happens unexpectedly. Relish it. |
Lesson #28: Use imagination when building a constituency for change. |
Lesson #29: Acts of kindness can have a long tail. |
Lesson #30: Strive, but remember to be kind to yourself. |
Lesson #31: Look and think before speaking. |
Lesson #32: Contemplation and branding are a powerful combination. |
Lesson #33: Tragedy can strengthen institutions – but it always takes personal leadership. |
Lesson #34: Make a mistake? Own, move on, learn… |
Lesson #35: Extraordinary kindness occurs more than we expect… |
Lesson #36: Optimistic, positive “followership” makes a huge difference. |
Lesson #37: Not worth fretting over minor “disasters”. They’re often not. |
Lesson #38: Ecosystems make a huge difference. Great organizations help make good ecosystems. |
Lesson #39: Reaching out works wonders. |
Lesson #40: Purpose is everything. And it's infectious. |
